Tuesday, October 26, 2010

How do you carry over relationship anxiety?

been beside my bf for 3and a half years. great reltionship. broke up for a few months - he did the breakin up. we get back together. after 4 months of mortal back, i started experiencing anxiety when i be around him. i love him so much and i've been trying to push through these state of mind b.c i know i don't want to not be with him. sometimes i'm fine and wonder why i verbs. other times i get physically off-colour...most of the time it is anticipatory anxiety.anxiety about anxiety. will i get hold of it today? will i feel anxious when i see him? we are moving contained by together, and i am freaking out that i'll be in a constant state of anxiety once i move contained by. i know i wnat to do i though b.c i want to ove our relationship on to the next step. i want to conquer my concern...how can i move past this anxiety and cherish and advantage what i have and stop worrying about- what if's? give a hand.How do you carry over relationship anxiety?
I wonder if your anxiety is actually anxiety of losing him, to some extent than having him? It's typical that when you have something you love, losing it is worse than anything else. So probably on some level you don't trust him to not break up near you again. I think that, if this is the covering, you should learn to be self sufficient. Learn to love yourself first, and know how to function without anyone contained by your life. Then you two can grow together, to some extent than you being next to him, living in mistrust that one day he will break up next to you again.
Hope this helps
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